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For the woman who loves God, loves her family, and somewhere along the way lost herself.

Tired of Just Surviving? Rebuild Your Peace, Identity, Health and Confidence in 60 Days.

Becoming HER is a faith-filled sisterhood and simple daily app that helps lost, drained and disconnected women break out of survival mode and feel like themselves again. One small step at a time.

Join the Sisterhood for $29/month

Includes the Becoming HER app (a $97/month value). Cancel anytime.

Just want the app? See app-only option

Sister, does this sound like you?

  • You are just surviving. Kids, cleaning, school runs, work, church. The list never ends.
  • Your mind won't slow down. Anxiety hits in the morning and depression sits heavy at night.
  • You take care of everyone, but no one is taking care of you.
  • The house needs you. The kids need you. And you feel empty by noon.
  • You look in the mirror and think, “Who even is she anymore?”
  • You know God loves you, but you don't feel it right now.

If you nodded at even one of these, I want you to hear this: You are not broken. You are tired from carrying so much. And you were never meant to do this alone.

Hi, I'm Alicia. I've been there.

I'm a wife, a mama of three, and a women's ministry leader. From the outside, it looked like I had it all together.

On the inside, I was running on empty.

Anxiety was loud. My body was worn out. And somewhere between the school drop-offs, the dishes and taking care of everyone else, I lost me. I didn't know who I was anymore.

I tried to fix it one piece at a time. A new routine here. A new plan there. Nothing stuck.

Then things started to change. I learned to calm my body before I tried to fix my life. I started replacing the lies in my head with what God says about me, and I said those truths out loud, every single day. I changed how I ate. I learned to set boundaries without feeling guilty.

Little by little, I started to come back. Not the old me. A stronger, more peaceful me.

That's why I created Becoming HER. So you don't have to figure it out alone like I did.

With love, Alicia

It's not that you aren't trying hard enough.

You've probably tried a new planner, a new diet, a new devotional, or a new "this time will be different" Monday.

Here's the problem. Most things only fix one piece. But you are a whole woman. Your peace, your identity, your health and your confidence are all connected.

If your mind is in panic mode, a meal plan won't stick.

If you don't know who you are, confidence feels fake.

If you're running on empty, you can't pour into anyone.

You don't need more willpower. You need the right steps, in the right order, with sisters cheering you on.

The Becoming HER Method

The 4 Pillars of Becoming HER

A simple 60-day path. Each pillar unlocks after the one before it, so you never feel overwhelmed.

  1. Pillar 1

    Peace

    Calm your mind and body first. Simple breathing, morning and evening devotionals, and an easy wind-down routine. Peace over panic.

  2. Pillar 2

    Identity

    Find out who you really are. Each day, you'll swap one lie you've believed for one truth from God's Word, and speak it out loud. You'll also reconnect with the things you used to love.

  3. Pillar 3

    Health

    Care for the body God gave you. Learn the basics of anti-inflammatory eating, what to eat, what to skip, with simple grocery guides. No crazy diets.

  4. Pillar 4

    Confidence

    Step into the bold version of you. Learn to set healthy boundaries, stop people-pleasing, and say yes to brave things.

Just a few minutes a day. All in one simple app.

The Becoming HER app walks with you every single day. No printables. No piles of books. Just open it and follow along.

  • Spoken Declarations. Speak God's truth out loud. Record your own voice and play it back. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue." (Proverbs 18:21)
  • Today Checklist. Know exactly what to do today. Check it off and feel the win.
  • Gratitude Journal. Write down 3 to 5 good things, morning and night.
  • Morning and Evening Devotionals. Start and end your day with God.
  • Prayer Board. Share prayer needs and pray for your sisters.
  • Private Journal. A safe place for your thoughts. Just for you.

Here's everything you get when you join the Becoming HER Sisterhood

  • The 60-Day Becoming HER Roadmap (all 4 pillars: Peace, Identity, Health, Confidence)
  • The Becoming HER App (with spoken declarations and daily checklist ($97/month on its own))
  • Peace Over Panic Toolkit (breathing, wind-down routine, calm-your-body basics)
  • Lies vs. Truth Identity Reset (one lie replaced with God's truth each day)
  • Anti-Inflammatory Basics + Grocery Guides
  • Morning and Evening Devotionals
  • The Private Sisterhood Community on Skool (a safe place to share, pray and grow)
  • Extra Resources library (books, videos and helpful tools)

The app alone is $97/month.

Join the Sisterhood today and get everything for just $29/month.

Choose how you want to start

Most women choose the Sisterhood. You get the app included, plus a community that has your back.

App Only

$97/month

  • Becoming HER app
  • Spoken declarations
  • Daily Today checklist
  • Gratitude journal and devotionals
  • Not included: Sisterhood community, group support
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Becoming HER Sisterhood + App

$97$29/month

Save $68 every month

  • Everything in App Only (included free)
  • Private Becoming HER Sisterhood on Skool
  • The full 60-Day Roadmap: Peace, Identity, Health, Confidence
  • Prayer and encouragement from sisters who get it

Getting started is easy. Here's how it works.

  1. 1

    Step 1: Join the Sisterhood on Skool.

    Click "Join the Sisterhood" and sign up for $29/month. Skool is where our community lives.

  2. 2

    Step 2: Open “START HERE.”

    Once you're in, go to the Classroom and open the START HERE course. Find the APP ACCESS lesson.

  3. 3

    Step 3: Unlock your app.

    In the APP ACCESS lesson, tap the app link and use the special code waiting for you in that lesson. Your Becoming HER app is now unlocked, at no extra cost.

Already in the Skool community? Go to START HERE, then APP ACCESS, to unlock your app.

What women are saying

We're just getting started, and you can be one of our Founding Sisters. Come grow with us from day one.

Alicia Montoya is a wife, a mama of three, and the Women's Ministry Director at Legacy Church Rio Rancho. She has led women's events like She Laughs, For Such a Time as This, and She Testifies. Now she's bringing that same heart to women everywhere.

Questions? I've got you.

Imagine yourself 60 days from now.

You wake up with more peace. You know who you are, and whose you are. You feel better in your body. You can say no without guilt and yes to brave things.

That's not just a dream, sister. That's who you're becoming.

Join the Sisterhood for $29/month

App included ($97/month value). Cancel anytime.

"For such a time as this." Esther 4:14

Join the Sisterhood for $29/mo